Stardust / Windblade’s Carrd
Welcome to Stardust / Windblade’s Carrd! This will help you understand me and know how to reach me.
Windblade’s Information Center
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ㆍ✧ name﹕Windblade (Blades, Windy) / Stardust (Star, Stars, Dusty)
ㆍ✧ age﹕20
ㆍ✧ pronouns﹕She/her/they/them
ㆍ✧ orientation ﹕Pan-romantic
ㆍ✧ gender﹕ Female
ㆍ✧ Likes﹕ Art, writing, roleplaying, animals, nature, driving
ㆍ✧ Dislikes﹕ Overwhelming people, rude people, hateful people, loud noises
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꒷ other info𓆩♡𓆪
ㆍ✧ other disorders﹕ C-PTSD, General Anxiety Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, ADHD, Autism, Medical Diagnosed DID
ㆍ✧ misc﹕Artist, writer, cosplayer, roleplayer
ㆍ✧ other stuff﹕ Just a silly gal <3
ㆍ✧ other stuff﹕ Fandoms I’m most heavy in are Transformers, COD, Avatar (blue people <3), and Red Dead
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Friends
✰⏤ Pookie (irl bestie)
✰⏤ Prismatic Stars Collective
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The Art Side
We've been doing art since roughly 2016 and began digital art in late 2019. Since then, we've worked to make our art better and expand what we can draw. Commissions and requests are usually open and a DM can help with understanding pricing and what we can and can't do. We can draw a wide range of things including mecha, furry, animals, animals from Avatar, and na'vi and people.
How to Find Me
The best ways to contact me is through Discord and Instagram. All other apps are usually for scrolling and posting purposes.
Click by of the icons down below to be linked to my socials!
Criteria for Interaction and Extras
🌌 Interests and Likes 🌌
Art, writing, reading, Avatar (Na'vi/Pandora), Transformers, TMNT, FNAF, Marvel, HTTYD, RDR, Hazbin Hotel and Helluva Boss, Cars & Planes (Disney), stargazing, music, animals, swimming, the beach, video games, archery, and racing🌌 DNI 🌌
If you are below 15 or over 30 (unless otherwise stated)
Support LGBT-phobes, racism, pedophilia, etc
Are a drama starter
Justify or support clearly abusive or unhealthy relationships
Are sexist or a misogynist
Are ableist
Are a non-traumagenic system or fake claimer of any kind
Abusers of any kind🌌 Interact! 🌌
Traumagenic systems and fictives
16 - 30 in age
Neurodivergents
LGBT+ or Straight allys
Fans of any of the fandoms mentioned above in 'Interests and Likes'
Furries
Non-toxic people
The System Side
This page is to help you understand the most active members of my system, including protectors, caretakers, gatekeepers, and more! <3
Host
Windblade / Shay
She/they, 22 {body}, Panromantic Asexual Polyamorous. Host
Gatekeepers
Rung - ✴️
He/Him/They/Them, Uknown Age, Gay. Fictive (Transformers), Gatekeeper.
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Ratchet - 🧡
He/Him, Unknown Age, Pansexual Polyamorous. Fictive (Transformers), Gatekeeper, Protector, Caretaker.
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Soundwave - 💽
He/Him, somewhere around 20-30 in human years, Pansexual Polyamorous. Fictive (Transformers), Gatekeeper, Protector.
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Keysier - (Black Skull Flag)
He/It/They, 23, Asexual. Gatekeeper, protector, emotional regulator.
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Hosea - 🦌
He/Him, 47, Bisexual. Fictive (Red Dead Redemption), Gatekeeper, Caretaker.
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Miles Quaritch - 💪
Miles, Q, Ritch. He/They, 40-45, Bisexual. Fictive (Avatar), Gatekeeper, Protector.
Common Fronters
Name - Proxy
🏵 Avatar 🏵
Äie’tanhìawke - (Rose)
Trudy - (Tiger)
Sa’nok Grace - (Bubbles)
Quaritch - (Muscle Arm)
Spider - (Spider)
Neytiri - (Seedling)
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⛓ Transformers ⛓
Bumblebee (ES) - (Star)
Avalanche - (Mountain)
Ophelia - (Wine Glass)
Soundwave - (Disk)
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✩ Other Fandoms and Misc ✩
Kieran - (Horse)
Robert Robertson - (Low Battery)
Emrys - (Hyacinth / Purple Flower)
Jax - (Key)
Polites - (Carousal Horse)
Daniel Swervez - (Undecided)
Discord Information
This page will tell you about my discord, where I'm most active, my status, pfp meanings, and more!
°:⋆ₓₒ Status ₓₒ⋆:°
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My status will almost always be set on Discord to show how I’m feeling. It will also show system members in front by role (protector, gatekeeper, etc.) Occasionally, there will also be quotes or words at the end as well.
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ex; Interaction status, Mood - "Quote"
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⬩➤ FTI ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Free to Interact !⬩➤ IWC/IWCR ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Interact with care/caution⬩➤ DNIUC ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Do not interact unless close !⬩➤ DNIUP/PS ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Do not interact unless partner / partner system !⬩➤ DNI ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Do not interact period. Some people may be acceptions !─────────.★..─
System Interaction Statuses
─..★.─────────⬩➤ PEIF ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Persecutor in front !⬩➤ PERIF ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Perpetrator in Front !⬩➤ PROIF ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Protector in Front !⬩➤ GATIF ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Gatekeeper in Front !⬩➤ LIF ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Little in Front !⬩➤ MIF ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ Middle in Front !⬩➤ NFDNI/NADNI ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢
ᯓ★ New fronter/alter DNI !
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Namely, this applies to people on our "friends" list on our "About Us" page. However, explicitly this applies to the following servers and users:✧･ﾟ: ✧･ﾟ: Servers :･ﾟ✧:･ﾟ✧
⋟ Servers we mod for when we are needed
⋟ Dingles Multiversal Roleplay Server
⋟ New Sparks of Caminus
⋟ CTM
⋟ The Gyspy Anarchists✧･ﾟ: ✧･ﾟ: People/Systems :･ﾟ✧:･ﾟ✧
≽ Prismatic Stars Collective
≽ Wild Dog Collective
≽ Munchkin
≽ Starscream
≽ Empty
≽ Empty
≽ Empty
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We are most active in the following servers:
⋟ Dingles Multiversal Roleplay Server
⋟ New Sparks of Caminus
⋟ CTM (mostly lurking)
System Interactions
• A Guide •
This is a guide to interacting with our system. Since we are fairly open about being a system, we like to ensure others understand how to interact safely and comfortably, both for us and you. This guide is a just a quick rundown of Do’s, Dont’s, and random tips.“Can I ask ‘Who’s Fronting?’ or ‘Who’s in Co’?” •
In the event you aren’t in a server with Pluralkit, it may be hard to know who is fronting. If you aren’t sure, don’t ever be afraid to ask us! Normally, you may get an average response, like “Oh, it’s me, Bee, and Ophelia.” But sometimes, you may get an “I’m not sure”. If that happens, just stay respectful and don’t push. Sometimes, we get blurry, and it’s hard to know who we actually are, but we’ll eventually figure it out.Get to Know Our Members •
Showing interest in individual alters is an amazing way to build a friendship with us. Everyone in the system has different hobbies, likes, dislikes, and even pronouns. Something simple, like asking “Do you like XYZ?” or “Whats your pronouns?” is always something everyone is willing to answer.Plural Language and Terms •
We, as a system, aren’t super picky about terms and plural languages. We don’t have preferred terms. For us, “alter” and “headmate” both give the same feel of being seen. Referring to us as they or them if you aren’t sure will never bother anyone!Navigating Sudden Switches •
Sometimes, we may suddenly switch mid conversation or mid phone call. Unfortunately, that’s the nature of DID. Our switches are typically fairly quick and nearly invisible, so it can be difficult to tell we’ve even switched. If you notice our perspective change suddenly or think there’s been a switch, don’t ever be afraid to ask! Our friends have gotten very good at catching switches, and it’s not impossible to start picking up on it.Meeting a New Alter •
Meeting a new alter can seem intimidating, but really it’s like meeting another friend. So:
Don’t be afraid to greet them! (Ex; “Hii! It’s nice to meet you, {alter name}”)
Ask about how they fit into the system, if they have hobbies or things they enjoy, etc! (Ex; “Do you have a role for your system?” or “Do you like art/writing/music/etc?”)
Discuss other things happening with them. Our system is fairly fluent, so discussing real life things is usually a safe option! (Ex; “Windblade said you guys’ car broke down. Have you guys fixed it?” or “Windblade said she interviewed for a job last week! Any luck?”)Don’t Pry into Traumas •
Just like with most singlets, you never want to pry into someone’s personal trauma. DID, as mentioned prior, is a mental condition based on traumatic experiences. For many alters, asking about trauma may make them uncomfortable, defensive, or even angry. If an alter wants to discuss trauma, let them do it at their own pace.
Note: This also applies to fictives! Many fictives may remember traumatic experiences from source, and discussing it may be difficult.Avoid Triggers When You Can •
For the most part, we understand that triggers may sometimes be impossible to avoid. It’s our responsibility to manage our triggers and our emotional reactions. However, if an alter comes to you about a trigger, we do ask that you please be mindful. We work to create safe spaces for everyone, and ourselves, and we’d like the same respect in turn.
(Ex; Ophelia once asked someone not to post about a trigger in a Discord server, or to at least post about it in a vent channel. This person said no and that she needed to “be an adult”. The interaction was harmful for Ophelia and caused her to regress back to being very distrustful of others.)Don’t Ask Us to Switch •
While we do have gatekeepers, forcing a switch can be an exhausting process. The disassociation that comes with forced switches can last for several minutes and make us feel very fuzzy. Asking to switch is basically saying to the alter fronting, “Hey, you’re actually kinda boring, can I have {alter} instead?” even if it doesn’t feel that way! (Ex; our ex used to say “I hope Teyo (old host) comes back to front soon.” This was super harmful to the alters who had to see and hear it.)
However, asking the alter fronting to pass a message along or ask a question is always okay! We understand that some people in our system just get along better with others, and we’ll never say no to passing a message along.Set Rules for Littles •
We do have a handful of littles and middles (between six and sixteen). However, if you’re on Discord or any social media, you will never interact with littles! We have an established system and set of rules for littles, and they must always have a caretaker or soother with them. They never just run rampant in servers. When our littles front, it’s usually just in private spaces or with people with trust. Most of the time, these guys prefer their quiet time, whether that’s drawing, coloring, playing, or just hanging around.
Questions we get asked Frequently as a DID System
These are just questions we’ve been asked about DID and living with it, and our answers.“What exactly is DID?” •
Dissociative Identity Disorder, or DID, was formerly known as Multiple Personality Disorder, or MPD. It is a complex mental health condition caused by severe, chronic, long-term, and repetitive early childhood trauma. It is characterized by the presence of two or more distinct personality states, or alters, that control behavior. It is often accompanied by significant memory gaps, amnesia, and dissociation. DID is caused by trauma interfering with the brain’s ability to form one, coherent personality. Instead, these personalities “fracture” into multiple people.“Can I show interest in learning about DID?” •
Yes, always! We’ve been a system since 2008 and diagnosed since 2020. Collectively, we love educating others on DID, how to interact, etc. We’ve extensively researched DID since being diagnosed, and always do our best to give accurate, honest answers.“Is there a ‘treatment’ or ‘cure’?”•
While there is no "cure", long-term psychotherapy, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy, is used to improve communication between alters and work toward integration. Integration is the act of slowly fusing personalities until there is either only one or a handful remaining. Not everyone can achieve this, sometimes due to the expense of therapy or because it just isn’t completely viable.
Fun fact: Many people with DID receive a misdiagnosis! Typically, they receive a Schizophrenia or Borderline Personality Disorder diagnosis, as DID is unfortunately easy to misdiagnose.“Is every system the same?” •
No! It’s important to understand that DID is an extremely complex mental disorder. While we are diagnosed, obtaining that diagnosis took many years, and some never get diagnosed at all. The things you read on this page are not universal! Every system is vastly different, and it’s important to keep an open mind when it comes to systems.“But DID is rare!” •
False! This is actually a proven myth, as DID was found to affect 1.5% of American adults. The DID Research website notes that prevalence rates for DID are similar to those for major depressive disorder and obsessive compulsive disorder, and are more common than autism spectrum disorder and schizophrenia. Think of how many people suffer intense, repetitive childhood trauma– it’s a lot more people than you’d think! Any of those people could turn out to have DID. And DID often isn’t diagnosed until the person is older. (Ex; we’re suspected to have had it since we were four or five, but we weren’t diagnosed until we were sixteen.)“But DID is Always Obvious!” •
The presence of DID isn’t always obvious, either to others or even to people who suffer from the condition themselves. In the beginning, people with DID may simply be aware of lapses in memory. Whether or not they’re aware of their tendency to dissociate, people can often function quite well with their disorder. When a person’s “alters” are fairly similar in the way they present themselves, the condition is harder to detect than when they’re more distinct.
Fun Fact: We weren’t officially diagnosed until a psych-hospital visit in 2020. We were sixteen at the time, and only really knew we had memory problems, and that family and friends complained about intense mood changes. It wasn’t until a psychiatrist paid full attention that we received the diagnosis.“Do you switch constantly?” •
Not usually. Since we’ve been in therapy, our switches evened out a lot between sixteen and now. My friends will attest that’s it’s usually me in front fairly regularly. However, we do still switch often and I usually always have others fronting with me that may talk, text, or even preform tasks.“Can you always hear everyone?” •
In short, no! I can usually hear whoever is in front with me, but there are some people I still struggle to hear in co. However, I usually have at least two other people in front with me. It can be difficult to hear others and hold conversations if others are talking in front while I’m trying to talk. This sometimes leads to me stuttering or messing up my words because I’m focusing on two conversations at once.“What the biggest struggle?” •
Honestly, as a fictive, it’s often self-doubt and the feeling that I’m not me. It can be very jarring and disorienting to go from myself (a Cybertronian) to a human body that’s 5’9 and 135 pounds. The other biggest struggle is leading a life that feels like it shouldn’t be mine. I often have to remind myself that I’m the host now, and it is almost entirely my job to lead our life.“Is there anything about DID that gives you a laugh?” •
Absolutely! There are moments where having DID can be amusing. We’ve learned to make light of our mental illness by educating others and laughing when we can. I feel the biggest thing that makes me laugh is when alters are in co-front and random but into a conversation. Our friends find it hilarious and have started calling them “drive bys”. (Ex; One of our alters, Bubble, will frequently say “Disgusting!” out loud randomly about various things.)